Thursday, November 17, 2011

Day 7 - Gifts for Men


Shopping for men can be very difficult. Much more difficult for me than shopping for the women in my life. DIY'ing or handmade men gifts is even more seemingly impossible. Men just aren't usually that sentimental, so the meaning of the gift gets lost on them sometimes.

One year, my husband and I decided we were only going to do handmade gifts for each other. I had JUST purchased my first sewing machine and had never sewn anything other than a curtain that failed miserably. But I wanted to try, so I got a pattern for some pajama pants and some fabric that were plaid, and I went to work. Little did I know that the XL pattern was GINORMOUS, and the fabric that I had chosen was for quilting and very unsuitable for pajama pants. Those kinds of things were so new to me, and I was clueless. Needless to say, the pants were AWFUL! I wish I had a pic of them to show you, and we could all laugh at them together. My husband was nice, and he tried to wear them, but they were so long and huge and itchy. They were pretty hilarious. I also knitted him a hat on one of those plastic hat looms. It was fine, but nothing fancy.

What did he give me? Well, the sucker went to the mall and bought a hand-knitted scarf from a Native American woman who had handmade gifts. He also bought a pair of earrings made from wood from her. The posts were also wooden, and they were HUGE (like sticking gauges in my ears). On Christmas morning, he tried to play it off like he'd made the gifts himself. What a punk. We have a good laugh about it now, but I was a little irked at the time that he wasted money on stuff I'd never use AND didn't put any thought into my gifts. But I've learned not to bank on the romance or sentimentality factor from him. He has thousands of other amazing qualities, so I'm willing to overlook that one. Plus my brother-in-law (Scott's brother) is just as bad, so it's always a good laugh to talk to his wife (my bff Jami) and compare Vallentine's / Christmas / birthday / and anniversary notes. Those two are so much alike it's hilarious.

But it won't stop me from trying to wear him down with my own handmade gifts for him. So I've searched high and low to find you some of the best homemade gifts for men out there.

Let's start out with something amazing, shall we? Most items seem too "homemade", but Amy from Positively Splendid rocked it with these Golf Club Covers. The fabrics and details she chose are perfect! When my husband is finally done with residency and actually has time to golf (I'll keep pretending that he'll have time one day), I'm totally making these for him!! My dad, however, is an avid golfer, so these might end up being his gift this year!


My husband might be a loner here, but he HATES his neck ties. Tying the dumb things is a "waste of time". But he looks SO good in them! He really wants some clip-ons, but have you seen the clip-on ties they make for men? Yikes! Apparently only unibomber-ish men wear them nowadays. ;)  I purchased a used lot of hideous ones off of ebay just to use the clips ($.40 each vs $1.00 each when purchasing clips anywhere else).  I already have plans to deconstruct them and make my own, but I thought you might like to see this other cute tutorial I found at With Love by Rach.



With Love by Rach

No hard-working man escapes this life without a day of back pain, right? I think one of these rick pack belts might be in my near future. This one is from To Sew with Love.


To Sew with Love

Are you a novice seamstress? Maybe that project seems a little complicated? Why not try a simpler Hot/Cold Neck Wrap for dad instead then?



The Family Scientista

Laptop sleeves are really big right now. I love this one from Sweet Verbena!  And if you need more laptop sleeve ideas, TipNut has a post with links to 27 more tutorials!


Sweet Verbena

Maybe your guy needs some updated office pics? Why not include a cute message?!  These are from Larissa at Just Another Day in Paradise. So cute!! You all know my obsession with Scrabble art, right?


Just Another Day in Paradise
 Or perhaps something different for his desk? Too much stress in his day? Try this DIY zen garden from Curbly.



Looking for something fun the kids can make for dad? Watch them giggle when he uses his mustache mug. Tutorial from the Tortoise and the Hare.


Tortoise and the Hare

Speaking of drinks...maybe some personalized map coasters for the one you love with meaningful places? Queen Martha has some cute ones.




Even though this one says "make-up bag", I envision it in a manly fabric as a shave-kit. Perfect for the frequent traveler.



Here's another one where a little fabric imagination will go a long way. Have a guy who gets angry when he can't find "his" remote? Yeah, drives mine nuts when he can't find ours. A remote caddy might be helpful! This cute one comes from Sew4Home.



Threadbanger has a great tutorial for making a men's brimmed beanie out of an old sweater and some cardboard!




What grown man doesn't still need some toys in his life? And Angry Birds? Combine the two with Angry Bird toys!

I might be attempting some of these awesome Angry Birds from Obsessively Stitching:


Or I may cheat and do something like this from Homemade Beauties by Heidi :



I know crocheting and knitting are really big right now, so I thought I'd throw one of those out there for those of you into it. Personally, I stink at it! Cody Jo from Simply Homemade has instructions to make these men's slippers:

















If all else fails, there's always plan Z - a gift card. BUT, maybe if you put it in a homemade envelope then you'll feel like you've at least done SOMETHING crafty, right??  These cute tiny envelopes are from PoppyTalk.



And if you're not ready for handmade but want some ideas for things to buy for me, Fly Lady has a good list that her readers have submitted. Check it out here. :)

Did I miss any? What do you usually get for the men in your life?

Aloha,

Charlie


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8 comments:

  1. Man these are awesome ideas. I usually never even give thought to making husband a gifts for Christmas. But some of these might actually make it under the tree this year. Thanks Charlie!!

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  2. Hi, Charlie! Thanks for including our heat pack belt in this gift guide ^^)

    Hugs,
    Lelanie

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  3. love the list. So many projects have been added to my to-do list. I was wondering if you have ever heard of zipper ties? they are the greatest invention, just slip around the neck and pull. My boys have them for church and they don't fall off like clip ons.
    Thanks for the hard work you do.

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  4. Awesome! Finally a list that doesn't include something a little too much on the "girly" side! I always have a hard time finding something I'm truly inspired to make my husband because all the "men" crafts seem just a tad too feminine. Thank you!

    Followed you from Dittle Dattle.

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  5. These are great! That mustache mug made me laugh!

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  6. One year my husband and I made gifts for each other, for Christmas. I made him a "World's Best Dad" certificate, framed and signed by the kids. And from me, a cd of pictures... wink, wink... of myself. He loved them.

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  7. Love this - great ideas. Last year I made my husband a desk (with some help from my father, the master of woodworking.) It was a great suprise to him, and helped me out tons. He is running his pond building/landscaping business from our house and was using my dining room table as a desk...

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  8. Finding that extraordinary something for the gentlemen in your life might be very much a challenge.You know your spouse generally and you know yourself.That makes blessing giving progressively difficult.He'll have a thought what you'll get him.We say blend it up and provide for him something he wouldn't expect: a customized blessing.
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